4 signs it's time to break up with your partner

I have always struggled when it came to making the final decision to let go and break up with my boyfriends. I have decided to write about some things that happened to me. Maybe you are in a similar place in life and can relate to some of these points. I know you are probably feeling lost and broken now, but I promise it will get better. There are over 7 bilion people in this world - including your future husband or wife 😀. 

1. It's not the same anymore

Do you feel like you have lost feelings to your significant other? You rarely feel happy around them, you prefer to spend time with your friends and family rather than with him or her. You don't need them anymore to feel happiness. They cause you stress and you rarely want to show affection. 

2. You don't see them in our future

If you are imagining your future and just can't see your partner there it may be a sign to end things. Instead of wasting your energy to the relationship that isn't beneficial you can focus on yourself (for example spend time with your friends or start a new hobby).

3. You feel like you have "outgrown" them

Sometimes people aren't on the same "level" in life. What I mean by that is for example a situation where you want to start focusing on your career, but your partner does want something else that doesn't satisfy you. 

I can give you an example from my past relationship. So my significant other was 27 at the time and all he did was waste time playing computer games or watching youtube videos that didn't really have any educational purposes. I have just started uni at the time (I was 21) and I had so much motivation to study and to find a job, but seeing my partner doing nothing everyday (we were living together at the time) really demotivated me and it was depressing to me. I did communicate with him and tried to motive him to do something productive (like cleaning the apartment or start writing his thesis) but it didn't help and I was called "toxic" for trying to change things. That is when I knew it just won't work and gave up trying to fix our relationship.

4. They are not the first person that comes to mind when you get happy news and want to share it. 

I don't think I need to say more about this :) You just feel that they would not pass the vibes and ruin the special moment for you.